The Dream Daughter by Diane Chamberlain – book review: A reading odyssey for autumn nights

When Carly Sears discovers her unborn child has a fatal heart defect, her brother-in-law comes up with a bizarre solution… time-travel to the future where doctors will be able to save the baby.

In an original and intriguing twist on the suspenseful family sagas that have made Diane Chamberlain a much-loved and popular contemporary novelist, The Dream Daughter pushes the boundaries of storytelling to compelling new heights.

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Brimming with drama, heartbreaking emotion and some of the toughest choices imaginable, this complex, multi-layered story is essentially a study of how far a mother is prepared to go – in this case, into an unknown future world – to save her child and unite her family.

Only months after her beloved husband Joe is killed in Vietnam in 1970, Carly Sears receives the bittersweet news that she is pregnant but her joy turns to devastation when doctors tell her that her unborn baby girl has a serious heart defect which means the infant will almost certainly die shortly after she is born.

There seems to be little that can be done but her brother-in-law, Hunter Poole, is a physicist and he has a plan. Hunter, who is married to Carly’s elder sister Patti, appeared in their lives just a few years before and his appearance was as mysterious as his past.

With no family, no friends, and a background shrouded in secrets, Hunter embraced the orphaned Patti and Carly as his family and has never looked back. He has always been ‘a fixer’ but he can’t fix Joe’s death and Carly struggles to see how he can fix her baby’s heart defect.

His plan involves something that will shatter every preconceived notion that Carly has… using secret equipment at his laboratory to time-travel to the future so that doctors can use foetal surgery to save the baby Carly has already called Joanna.

It will require a kind of strength and courage that the expectant mother never knew existed, a mind-bending leap of faith… and the danger that so many things could go terribly wrong.

But if there is a chance to save the baby, how can she turn down Hunter’s offer?

Chamberlain blends fascinating science fiction, romance, adventure, suspense and mystery as she makes the unbelievable seem almost believable in this page-turning, time-travelling, rollercoaster story which sees a young mother caught up in a heart-rending domestic dilemma.

With her background in psychology and a keen interest in understanding the way people tick, this is an author who excels in exploring family life, and the dramas and conflicts that can tear us apart, or work to make us stronger.

Using a compelling – and often poignant – ‘back to the future’ device adds an exciting element to Carly’s story as we weave between past and present on a journey full of unexpected twists and turns, mind-blowing discoveries, and decisions that no mother would ever want to make.

A reading odyssey for autumn nights…

(Macmillan, hardback, £14.99)

Futuristic Dreams Turn To Nightmare In ‘Electric State’ : NPR

Most of the time, when I read a Simon Stålenhag book, I spend days scanning the trees around my house, looking for a shudder in the leaves; for the hump of a giant robot rising over the treeline, just beginning to stand.

Most of the time, I see them everywhere.

His books infect me that way. The stories crawl into my brain and mess with my memory of history, time and place. His art (photorealistic, washed out, laced in neon or icicles, nostalgic and futuristic both at the same time) gets into my eyes and stays there. For a while, I can’t trust anything. I see his world in the shapes all around me. Stålenhag’s two earlier art books (Tales From The Loop and Things From The Flood) exist for me, in a very real way, like an alternate history of a place I’ve never been, but miss like a second home. They are artifacts recovered from a dream of 1980’s and 90’s Sweden, of a pastel suburban past littered with robots, spaceships and dinosaur bones.

His newest, The Electric State, is different. It feels like something brought back from a nightmare:

The war had been fought and won by drone pilots — men and women in control rooms far from the battlefields where unmanned machines fought each other in a strategy game played over seven years. The pilots of the federal army had lived a good life in brand-new suburbs where they could choose from thirty kinds of cereal on their way home from work. The drone technology was praised because it spared us meaningless loss of life. The collateral damage was of two kinds: the civilians unfortunate enough to be caught in the crossfire, and the children of the federal pilots who, as a concession to the godheads of defense technology, were all stillborn.

That’s how State begins. Its first words. Where Tales and Things had an innocence to them — a sense of wildness and freedom in their structure as visual memoirs of a kid growing up in the shadow of a looming, strange future full of inexplicable machines and utopian science gone wrong — State does not. His Swedish books read joyous when they were happy, bittersweet (but rarely sorrowful) when they were not, and adventurous in between. But The Electric State is Stålenhag’s American book. His vision of an alternate post-war, post-drought, post-human 1997 in the desert West and California. And it is haunting.

The words (so few of them, just the barest few paragraphs every couple of pages) run in two tracks. One is a kind of history lesson on how the United States lost itself to a new VR-style technology called Sentre — initially developed as a way for combat drone pilots to integrate their brains with their machines, “An advanced joystick, basically,” the tech later oozing out of the bunkers and defense R&D labs as entertainment; a way for people to check out of the real world for a little while and plug themselves into a global consciousness, play games, pilot giant robots, be born again, all shiny and new.

The other track (the larger, the more affecting) is a travelogue of sorts. It’s the story of Michelle, a 19-year-old girl with a shotgun, a stolen car and a robot sidekick, trying to make her way across the abandoned, decaying, sandblasted and militarized American west. She’s headed for San Francisco, or what remains of it, to a fingerspit of land poking out into the Pacific ocean, and a house there. Because there’s something inside that’s very important to her, and she has to get it back.

Stålenhag’s art has always been jarring, with its combination of dull suburban tract houses, Brutalist apartment blocks, boxy economy cars and the sleek lines of pure sci-fi machinery. He’s always done decay well, and abandonment. He’s always had a hacker’s eye for kludging together old technology and new amid a rat’s nest of cables and blinky lights. He’s got a knack for the slick sheen of biopunk grossness — all tendrils and weird fluids — and the consequent juxtaposition of humans and the machines they have made.

But State is a departure in that here — in his America, in his version of our particular sick and sweaty dream of the future — the man and the machine are one. The bodies — lost to the deathless convergence of minds inside the beaked “neurocaster” headsets his Sentre junkies wear — are emaciated and skeletal, kept alive by IV drip, then by will, then by nothing but the machine. The giant robots that litter the landscape are cartoony and childish. Or made for war. Or built from scrap and spare parts — shrouded in dangling cables and covered in fingers, like Lovecraftian monsters stalking strip malls and highway rest stops.

Michelle tells her story in stages, a few hundred words at a time, recording her impressions of blinding dust storms and convenience stores guarded by assault-rifle-toting teenagers. It unwinds slowly, her past, the reasons for her trip, her relationship with the little, big-headed robot revealed bit by bit. On the opposite track, the history lesson becomes orders given to a mysterious man who’s been following Michelle all the way to San Francisco. And when the two storylines cross, they do so in silence. Pictures only. Like snapshots from a horrifying past that never quite was.

And if you’re anything like me, you’ll take those images to bed with you for a long time and dream of Stålenhag’s America — lost to sand, to drought, to war, to loneliness, and stalked always by the low, distant rumble of something terrible rising out of the earth and coming for you.

Jason Sheehan knows stuff about food, video games, books and Starblazers. He is currently the restaurant critic at Philadelphia magazine, but when no one is looking, he spends his time writing books about giant robots and ray guns. Tales From the Radiation Age is his latest book.

Charlotte Talks: ‘Hillbilly Elegy’ Author J.D. Vance On His Upbringing And The American Dream

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Meet J.D. Vance, author of Hillbilly Elegy before his visit to Charlotte. His bestselling book is now being turned into a movie.

J.D. Vance grew up in a poor Rust Belt city in Ohio and an Appalachian town in Kentucky and went on to write a number one New York Times bestselling memoir about his family’s story called Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis.

His grandparents left Kentucky’s Appalachia region in search of a middle class life up north in Ohio. They were somewhat successful in becoming more upwardly mobile, but that was only part of the story. Vance writes that they were never able to completely escape poverty and struggled with drug abuse, alcoholism and trauma.

Hillbilly Elegy provided a peek inside the struggles of white working class families and a case study of rural America in decline. It seemed to touch on many of the hot button issues of income inequality, working class anger, and a cultural divide that came out of the 2016 Presidential election.

Now the book is being made into a movie by director Ron Howard. In advance of his visit to Charlotte, guest host Dr. Michael Bitzer talks with Vance about his story, the impact of his book, and how he sees some of those themes playing out now in politics and society.

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J.D. Vance, Author of Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis

Related event:

J.D. Vance is speaking to a sold-out crowd for The Learning Society at Queens University of Charlotte on Tuesday evening, Oct. 23rd at Knight Theater. Details

‘Dare To Dream’: local speaker hopes her book will be a ‘catalyst for transformation’

Local speaker and publisher Vera Cornish has published her own book in the hopes of spreading her message of empowerment through stories about her own life.

Cornish, the publisher of The Urban Connection of the Capitol Region, has a career background in teaching children with autism and schizophrenia, as well as student services in higher education. Her current career as a “life empowerment strategist” led to her publishing “Dare To Dream,” which follows up on her lectures and speaking engagements with prompts for readers to pursue their own dreams.

“What inspired me to write the book were the younger women who had participated in my workshops,” Cornish said. “They would share with me that every time we would come together for a workshop, that it was peppered with stories that significantly impacted their lives.”

According to Cornish — who is often called “Miss Vera” by those who attend her speaking engagements and workshops — the book builds on her workshops by sharing “messages of hope” she found from her own life. Cornish is the first in her family to graduate from college, and went on to earn a degree from Penn State and a graduate degree from Misericordia University.

“It’s amazing how fear will take residence,” Cornish said. “I didn’t know I was living in fear. And sometimes you’re held back by a deep-seated fear that’s stopping you from living the life you want to live.”

Cornish said that she expected the book to appeal mostly to a female audience, but that she’s been surprised by responses from male readers. In her words, the book is for anyone who wants to ask themselves, “what do I want out of life?”

“It’s inspirational,” she said. “It’s motivational, and it’s a catalyst for transformation.

An excerpt from the book can be read below. For more information on Vera Cornish or details on ordering her book, visit VeraCornish.com.

Dare To Dream excerpt by PennLive on Scribd

For women across the Arab world, #MeToo remains an elusive dream – Middle East News

“After I had spent three years in the company, I realized that as a prostitute I had been regarded with more respect, and had been more highly valued than all the female employees, myself included. In those days I lived in a house with a private toilet. I could enter it at any time, and lock the door without anybody rushing me.

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“My body was never hemmed in by other bodies in the bus, nor was it prey to male organs pressing up against it from in front and behind. Its price was not cheap, and could not be paid for by a mere raise in salary, an invitation to dinner, or a drive along the Nile in somebody’s car. Nor was it considered the price I was supposed to pay in order to gain my director’s good will, or avoid the chairman’s anger.”

This sharp-edged description by Firdaus, the main character in the book “Woman at Point Zero” by Nawal El Saadawi, was written 38 years ago in Egypt in Arabic – and its publication was banned.

“I came to realize that a female employee is more afraid of losing her job than a prostitute is of losing her life. An employee is scared of losing her job and becoming a prostitute because she does not understand that the prostitute’s life is in fact better than hers. And so she pays the price of her illusory fears with her life, her health, her body, and her mind. She pays the highest price for things of the lowest value. I now knew that all of us were prostitutes who sold themselves at varying prices, and that an expensive prostitute was better than a cheap one.”

>> Israeli journalist Dan Margalit says he will cease journalistic work following Haaretz sexual harassment expose

If you are looking for the sources of the Arab Me Too movement, you can find them in this profound book that shines a light on the ills of Egyptian society in particular, and Arab society in general concerning their attitude toward women.

For these women, the Me Too movement is a belated expression of a reality they know all too well. In their view, it may be an important step that can, and may even be succeeding, in changing the consciousness in the West, but it also arouses envy because it can’t help them. Despite dozens of Facebook pages that have been opened in the last year with the title Me Too (in Arabic), and which have joined by many men who support the women’s struggle – the denunciation of bosses, relatives, celebrities or just “ordinary” sexual harassers or abusers is still not something that is done.

The very rare exception was a suit filed last month by Egyptian journalist Mai al-Shami against her boss, the executive editor of the Al-Youm al-Saba’a newspaper, Dandarawi Al-Harawi , for sexual harassment that lasted for over a year. The details of the alleged harassment were presented on her Facebook page and she even told her story to the editor-in-chief. Al-Shami may have received extensive coverage in the media, but most of it was not the type that she had expected. Some of her colleagues came out against her. Harawi’s supporters described her as a habitual liar. No one is even taking about suspending Harawi from his job at the paper, while al-Shams has been banned from entering the newspaper’s building. It is unlikely that the achievements of the Me Too movement will impress the Egyptian judge who will have to decide the case of the abusive editor.

“The harasser does not ride with us,” is the title of the Twitter account and the posters on the back of buses in Tunisia. This is how the organization for women’s rights in Tunisia tried to raise the public awareness about the “plague of harassment” and enlist the government to act against it. But as in Egypt and Jordan, which increased the punishments for sexual harassment and domestic violence, these laws have been ignored in light of the heavy social pressure against filing complaints, and when a complaint is submitted it is treated with contempt by the police and prosecutors.

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“I am willing to work another shift every day just so my wife does not go out to work in a place where there are men,” a Jordanian from the economic elite recently told me. “Sexual harassment, mostly verbal, is part of our existence. I’m sure that I too harassed quite a few women during my career,” he admitted honestly, when we talked again in preparation for this article.

He was not overly impressed by the activities of the Me Too movement. “Such a movement has no chance of succeeding here and not only because we are a male and chauvinist society. Every Western movement, as positive and essential as it may be, will run into a defensive wall that is supported by ideological justifications. One time it will be a claim that the West wants to dictate different social rules to us that will destroy the foundations of our society and another time its will be seen as a threat against Islam. No one will admit that such a movement is a threat to the ugly practice that conceals hollow masculinity. If we want such a step to succeed here, it must come from the men and not women,” he said.

It was actually during the revolution of the Arab Spring, in which women protested alongside men, helped in preparing the signs, treated the injured and were wounded themselves, that women were subjected to severe sexual harassment and abuse not only by the young male protesters but also by the police, who took advantage of the crowded public space.

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Reports of serious abuse filled the newspapers and only when the demonstrations died down and the Mubarak regime fell, and after a new parliament was elected, did legislators find time to address the issue of sexual harassment. It was a great moment for women’s organizations, which began a public campaign to expose the scope of the problem. Independent initiatives that arose on social networks, and even in the streets, offered women a chance to tell their stories and present their harsh experiences on improvised stages to spread awareness.

But about a year ago, the Tunisian women’s rights organization released figures showing that the number of cases of sexual harassment in the country actually climbed by 74 percent. It is hard to know how accurate this figure is. One can only hope that it is partially the result of more women daring to complain — in a step that highlights the courage demonstrated by more Arab women willing to tell their stories in their full names on Facebook and Twitter.

Women may be able to draw encouragement from an Egyptian court’s sentencing a lawyer, Nabih al-Wahsh, to three years in prison and a fine of 20,000 Egyptian pounds for his comments in a television interview in which he said that women who wear ripped jeans should be raped and called this a “national duty.” The ruling of the mufti of Egypt that harassing women is a violation of Islamic law was also encouraging. But overall, for now it seems as though the more the scope of harassment in Arab countries is exposed, the more the chance of a dialogue on the issue recedes until such a discussion looks more like a desert mirage.

Youngstar, Kings Will Dream meet again in Caulfield Cup

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Youngstar and Kings Will Dream chased Australian Horse of the Year Winx when second and third in the Group 1 Turnbull Stakes at Flemington Racecourse in Melbourne, Australia, on Oct. 6.

Winx, who has won an astonishing 28 consecutive races, is a massive favorite to win an unprecedented fourth consecutive running of the Group 1 Cox Plate at Moonee Valley Racecourse on Oct. 27.

Youngstar and Kings Will Dream will start instead in Saturday’s Group 1 Caulfield Cup at Caulfield Racecourse just outside of Melbourne. As of Wednesday, Youngstar was the 9-2 favorite in the future-book in a field of 18, a slight choice over 5-1 Kings Will Dream.

The $3,561,000 Caulfield Cup is run at 1 1/2 miles on turf and is a handicap. The race is expected to produce a few runners for the famous Melbourne Cup at two miles at Flemington on Nov. 6.

The Caulfield Cup has a post time of 1:40 a.m. Eastern, or 10:40 p.m. Pacific on Friday.

Youngstar, who like Winx is trained by Chris Waller, will carry the lowest weight, 113.5 pounds, compared to topweight Best Solution at 126.7 pounds. Youngstar, a 4-year-old mare by High Chaparral, has won 4 of 11 starts. She won the Group 1 Queensland Oaks at 1 3/8 miles in May.

Kings Will Dream, a 5-year-old Irish-bred by Casamento, will carry 116.8 pounds. Trained by Darren Weir, Kings Will Dream has won 6 of 12 starts, including a minor stakes at 1 1/2 miles last March. Kings Will Dream has not won a group stakes but has been third in two Group 1 races since early September.

Best Solution, owned by Sheikh Mohammed’s Godolphin Racing and trained by Saeed Bin Suroor, has won his last three starts in England and Germany, all at 1 1/2 miles on turf – the Group 2 Princess of Wales’s Stakes at Newmarket in July, the Group 1 Grosser Preis Von Berlin in August, and the Grosser Preis von Baden at Baden-Baden, Germany, on Sept. 2.

Trainer Aidan O’Brien runs Thecliffsofmoher, who was fourth in the Group 1 Ladbrokes Stakes at 1 1/4 miles at Caulfield on Oct. 13 in his Australian debut. A well-traveled 4-year-old colt, Thecliffsofmoher was eighth in the Breeders’ Cup Turf at Del Mar last November. Earlier this year, Thecliffsofmoher was third to Roaring Lion in the Group 1 Eclipse Stakes at Sandown Park, outside of London.

Thecliffsofmoher, who will carry 124.5 pounds, will be ridden by Hugh Bowman, the regular rider of Winx. As of Wednesday, Thecliffsofmoher was 6-1 in the future book for the Caulfield Cup.

Children’s author visits local students to encourage them to dream

TOPEKA, Kan. (WIBW) – A children’s author visited a local school to talk his career, books and to encourage the students to follow their imaginations.

Michael Buckley paid a visit to Jay Shideler Elementary to talk about the joy of reading, as well tips on how children can become authors. Buckley is known for his book series ‘The Series Grimm.’

He says there are so many scientific reasons to read. It makes you happier, smarter and you make more money.

“There’s so many reasons to be a reader that are purely selfish,” he said. “But I think the best one is just that reading takes you places that the world can’t and sometimes you need a little escape.”

Buckley has held other careers. He was a comedian, in a punk rock band and he wrote for T.V., but says being a children’s author is the best one.

Opinion | How Sears Was the Amazon of Its Day

And Richard Sears reached them. He used his genius for advertising and promotion to put a catalog in the hands of 20 million Americans in 1900, when the population was 76 million. The Wish Book or Big Book or Dream Book, as the catalog was variously called, could run a staggering 1,500 pages and offer more than 100,000 items. And when one of his pants suppliers, the manufacturing wizard Julius Rosenwald, became his partner, in 1886, Sears was on the way to becoming a vertically integrated juggernaut. Whether you needed a cream separator or a catcher’s mitt, a plow or a dress, or an entire house, Sears had it. “No matter where you go or how long you look, you’ll not find values approaching those this book presents,” the spring 1922 catalog declared.

Sears would carve up the catalog landscape with a local rival, Montgomery Ward. Remember it? Probably not. The e-sales promotion company Groupon, itself once mighty and now clinging to life, occupies part of Ward’s former headquarters in Chicago. Sears, Montgomery Ward and another Midwestern-born general merchandise retailer, J.C. Penney, dominated postwar American retailing, controlling 43 percent of department store sales by 1975. But even by then, Sears was beginning to falter under waves of new competition.

The company was not alone. A.&P., which introduced the first cut-rate grocery store in 1912, was also sliding into a long decline that would last through decades of ownership and management changes. Great A.&P. went through the final checkout lane in 2016 following its second bankruptcy. (Or was that the third?) A.&P. once operated 15,819 stores and ran the world’s largest food packaging plant, in Horseheads, N.Y. The company was so powerful that in 1949 trustbusters tried to slice it into seven independent companies. Even before that, states passed “chain laws” that included minimum markups, so small stores couldn’t be undermined by the loss leaders that A.&P. would offer to attract shoppers. A.&P., a vicious competitor, buried local retailers anyway.

By the inflation-racked 1970s, though, A.&P. was struggling against nimbler chains such as Safeway, which became the country’s top grocer, and Kroger, as well as new models of retailing such as big-box stores. Walmart’s eventual move into groceries would help seal A.&P.’s fate, and, at the same time, make the Arkansas company the nation’s top retailer, where it remains. For now.

A.&P. would later show some dubious creativity when in the early 1980s management scrapped and replaced the “overfunded” pension plan, plundering it for operating capital. This piece of sliminess was copied all over corporate America, signaling the end of the pension plans that so many workers depended on for retirement income.

Adam Thielen’s cousin co-authors new book about his rise from small-town boy to NFL star

By now, football fans everywhere know at least some of the story behind the Detroit Lakes native who rose from relative obscurity to become a Minnesota Vikings wide receiver. But VonRuden, who grew up in Detroit Lakes and now lives in Oregon, has written about Thielen’s early life from the perspective of those who truly know him best: his family.

“Adam is my cousin,” says VonRuden. “His dad and my mom are siblings. Growing up we spent a lot of time together at our grandparents’ home on Floyd Lake.”

The new sports biography, “Adam Thielen: From Small Town to Football Star,” is scheduled for public release on Tuesday, Oct. 16 — and VonRuden, who arrived in Detroit Lakes this weekend to take part in a friend’s impending nuptials, will be doing three book signings this week to help introduce it to the public.

“The main reason for writing this book was to help inspire children to chase their dreams,” VonRuden said. “All too often, people give up on their dreams before they even give them a chance. Adam’s story helps prove that anything is possible with hard work and perseverance. I hope that it inspires children, and adults too.”

It’s a message that VonRuden herself embraces fully. “I took a chance on a childhood dream of becoming an author at the age of 25,” she said. “It’s never too late!”

Chasing a dream is something VonRuden has done before. After graduating from St. Cloud State in the spring of 2017 with a bachelor’s degree in elementary education, her first post-graduation job was teaching fifth grade at Mora Elementary School. It was there she met Ryan Jacobson, the husband of one of her fellow teachers.

“He (Jacobson) came to me with the idea of collaborating together to create a biography on Adam,” VonRuden said.

After seeking, and getting, Thielen’s permission, VonRuden was given the responsibility of interviewing family members and tracking down photos.

“The book chronologically recaps Adam’s life, from birth to the end of the previous football season (2017-18),” VonRuden said. “I wrote the first 16 chapters (covering Thielen’s birth through college years), and he (Jacobson) wrote the rest.

“Adam’s parents and sisters helped me to really make the book come to life,” she said. “The details they helped provide made the book what it is.”

Of course, VonRuden’s own childhood memories also helped: She and Thielen, along with their fellow cousins, spent a lot of time at their grandparents’ lake home together, playing games and having fun.

“As we got older, we (she and Thielen) both still saw each other and family events and around Detroit Lakes, but we were both busy living our own lives,” VonRuden said.

Still, Thielen remained a positive influence in her life. “He made sure to check in with me and see how I was doing, even after he left for college,” VonRuden said, adding that he encouraged her to take advantage of the opportunity to write the book as well.

VonRuden said the book already available for pre-orders, and will be officially released this Tuesday via major book sellers like Amazon and Barnes & Noble, and at the Becker County Museum gift shop starting on Saturday, Oct. 20.

VonRuden will sign books in Detroit Lakes, starting on Tuesday, Oct. 16, from 3:30-7 p.m. at Roosevelt Elementary. She’ll be at Mollberg Field from 5-8 Wednesday and the Becker County Museum from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 20.

Jessica Simpson’s Kids Ask ‘Hilarious’ Questions About New Baby

Jessica Simpson‘s kids want to know everything about their sibling on the way — and they couldn’t be asking their parents funnier questions!

“The questions I get on the daily from Maxwell and Ace are hilarious,” the shoe designer and singer, 38, who is pregnant with her third child, told PEOPLE exclusively while attending QVC’s FFANY Shoes on Sale breast cancer fundraiser on Thursday.

“They want to know every detail — like how milk comes out of mommy, how the baby will actually get here and if my belly button is a speaker to communicate with the baby,” she explained, choosing just a few of their silly inquiries.

The soon-to-be mother of three added that she and her husband Eric Johnson, 39, “are constantly cracking up and trying to figure out how to be honest… but not traumatize them or the friends and teachers we know they are sharing every detail with!”

Simpson and the former NFL player share son Ace Knute, 5, and daughter Maxwell “Maxi” Drew, 6.

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Jessica Simpson

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Simpson also told PEOPLE that “so far” her pregnancy is “going well.”

“I feel really good and we are all so excited,” she remarked, adding that “this time around I am also focused on Maxwell and Ace, who have their own very active calendars and social lives at this point — so it’s going by extremely fast!”

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Asked what the craziest part of her third pregnancy has been so far, Simpson went on to detail the “vivid pregnancy” dreams she’s been having.

“Well, I fly to get from place to place in my dreams this time around. It’s pretty weird but also fun,” she explained. “I keep a dream book next to my bed to try to get to the psychology of these vivid pregnancy dream[s]!”

As for her pregnancy cravings, Simpson shared she’s been hungry for “anything cinnamon — from a bun to a hot tamale.”

Jesssica Simpson and Eric Johnson with kids

Jesssica Simpson and Eric Johnson with kids

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RELATED: Jessica Simpson Accepts Fashion Icon Award: ‘I Don’t Really Understand How I Can Be an Icon’

After making her baby bump debut on the pink carpet at the event, the show designer  — who heads up a billion-dollar fashion empire — received the Fashion Footwear Association of New York’s Fashion Icon award, one of the night’s biggest honors. 

“I’m very humbled to receive this,” she said during her acceptance speech. “I don’t really understand how I can be an icon. That’s kind of crazy to me. I feel a little bit young and right now I’m waddling and so I don’t know how iconic this is.”

The star also joked that her pregnancy hormones may get the best of her emotions up on stage when she began talking about the charitable element of the night. “I have all these pregnancy hormones and I’m constantly crying and I’m very emotional, and so like my mom said, in our family, we’ve experienced breast cancer, so what FFANY and QVC have done to raise money and awareness for breast cancer is absolutely remarkable and I just appreciate you guys so much for having me up here and for saying that I’m kind of cool, it means a lot.”

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The actress and singer revealed in September that she and her husband are expecting baby No. 3, a daughter, more than five years after welcoming their second child, son Ace.

“This little baby girl will make us a family of five,” Simpson wrote alongside a snap of Ace and his big sister Maxwell “Maxi” Drew, 6, surrounded by pink balloons. “We couldn’t be happier to announce this precious blessing of life.”

A source previously PEOPLE that the family “are SO excited” about the baby on the way. “Maxwell and Ace cannot wait — and it was a very happy surprise,” the insider added.